Recently, I started uploading some of my essays on my Facebook page to express my thoughts and observations about life and the events happening around me. This not only helps me develop a writing habit but also alleviates stress by transitioning my tense work mindset into a peaceful mental space. The words of encouragement and shares from friends have been unexpected rewards for me.
I was born in Taishan, China, and grew up in a remote mountainous area. Every day, I had to walk to school, crossing streams and mountains, a round trip taking about five hours. As a young child, I, along with neighboring kids, had to set out for school at five in the morning to arrive before 7:30. In those days, attending school was a significant expense for poor families in mountainous regions, and it was especially a luxury for girls. Being a mischievous child, I often clashed with my grandmother to fight for the opportunity to attend school. As long as she didn't stop me from going to school, I would take good care of the chickens, sheep, pigs, and cows at home. Otherwise, these animals would mysteriously "wander" into the fields. After many confrontations (of course, getting beaten was inevitable), my grandmother reluctantly allowed me to continue schooling, as it was less stressful for her than constantly fearing the loss of the family's livestock.
Today's children, unlike me who had to endure beatings to secure an education, live in an era with abundant learning opportunities and countless things to learn. School homework and after-school classes are just the basics; there's also music, dance, computer courses, and more to fill up their schedules, which reassures parents. This phenomenon is particularly pronounced in Asia. However, I believe that teaching children the principle of "study when it's time to study, play when it's time to play" is more important than constantly adding more subjects for them to learn. The learning I refer to here is not just limited to classroom studies. In the journey of life, there are countless opportunities to learn. Learning is about discovering one's potential, developing interests, and cultivating concentration. Once the right direction is found, one should go all out. Developing a focus on learning from an early age has far-reaching implications for future growth. While book knowledge is crucial, life experiences, interpersonal skills, organizational abilities, and confidence can be gained and honed through play. There are various forms of play, some that train physical endurance and patience, and others that require mental effort and wisdom. Children will find their way through continuous attempts and practice. They will find balance in joy and pressure and unknowingly develop perseverance and a cooperative spirit. Therefore, when playing, they should also concentrate fully and participate wholeheartedly to enjoy the benefits that play brings.
"Study when it's time to study, play when it's time to play" is a valuable principle that can help children learn how to allocate their time effectively. Knowing how to invest their time most efficiently to achieve the best results. By focusing fully during study time and giving their all during playtime, children can achieve better learning outcomes and more enjoyable play experiences. I sincerely encourage everyone to not only care about their children's learning progress but also spend more time playing with them. You might find that the person who enjoys it the most is you.